千百年来的道德说教和社会礼仪,致使不少夫妻不善于直接向对方表达自己心中的爱意。热恋中青年男女的一些热情浪漫的举止,可以为人们所接受,但对于夫妻之间的情意绵缠,往往会遭到耻笑。人们习惯于看重婚姻表面的结果——生儿育女,组成家庭,但却往往忽视婚姻赖以维系的基础——不断产生新的爱情。已婚者的爱情,比起年轻人的热恋要成熟、稳重、深沉得多。但这种成熟、深沉的爱,是需要表达的!倘若夫妻问都将爱意深藏心底,不用恰当的方式予以表达,不能相互进行交流,这 Since thousands of years of moral preaching and social etiquette, many couples are not good at expressing their love directly to each other. Some young and middle-aged men and women passionate romantic behavior, can be accepted by the people, but for the love between husband and wife, often ridiculed. People are accustomed to valuing the result of the marriage - having children and forming families, but often neglecting the foundation on which marriage depends - and constantly creating new love. Married love, compared to young people’s love to mature, steady, much deeper. However, this kind of mature and deep love needs to be expressed. If both husband and wife ask to express their love in the bottom of their hearts, they should not express themselves properly and can not communicate with each other