李老师这篇文章所谈到的现象,在当下的家庭教育中非常普遍。孩子的教育,往往都是妈妈说了算,爸爸则处在一个从属的地位,在孩子的生命成长中,爸爸的意见被忽视,甚至完全缺位,对孩子来说,是一辈子都难以修复的损失。我们先来看文中夫妻对小杰所秉持的教育理念。爸爸认为:“需要让孩子明白在这个年龄段需要做什么?要培养什么方面的能力?需要养成怎样的行为习 The phenomenon mentioned by Teacher Li in this article is very common in current family education. Children’s education, often the mother has the final say, the father is in a subordinate position in the child’s life growth, the father’s opinion is neglected, even completely vacancy, is a child’s life is difficult to repair loss. Let’s start with the educational philosophy that couples hold on JJ. Dad thinks: ”need to let children understand what needs to be done at this age? What ability to cultivate? What kind of behavior need to develop