看人下菜碟——是句令人反感的话,其实是一句大实话。有这样一个真实的故事,笔者的一位朋友钟女士,2003年春季曾为请人吃饭的事情颇费心思.一年之际在于春,这是启动全年事业的关键时刻,过了这村没这店,可得抓住时机,该出手时就出手。于是,钟女士和丈夫一起进行策划:1)丈夫职务提拔,请上司;2)自己职称评定,请评委;3)父亲做手术.请大夫;4)女儿要出国留学.请中介;5) Look at the food dish - is the offensive words, in fact, is a big truth. Having such a true story, Ms. Chung, a friend of the author, struggled with the invitation to eat in the spring of 2003. One year is due to spring, which is a crucial moment for launching the year-round undertaking. After this village No this shop, you can seize the opportunity, the shot when the shot. So, Ms. Chung and her husband together planning: 1) promotion of her husband’s position, the boss; 2) assessment of their own titles, please the judges; 3) father surgery, please doctor; 4) daughter to study abroad, please intermediary, 5)