邻居赵大妈从企业退休多年,儿女均已成家,凭自己和老伴儿的养老金,生活本应过得有滋有味。可赵大妈退休后像变了一个人,外出与老姐妹们聊天时总是张家长李家短,招惹是非,大家都不愿与她交往;在家从不做家务,当甩手掌柜,对老伴儿横挑鼻子竖挑眼,对儿女们的忠告置若罔闻,搞得儿女们都不愿回家,老伴儿亦避而远之。笔者以为老年人在日常生活中,要宽宏大度,尊重别人,与人为善,为儿孙们做出榜样;不要倚老卖老、怨天怨地,更不要自恃清高,孤高自傲。 Aunt Zhao aunt retired from the business for many years, children have been married, with their own and his wife’s pension, life should have had a taste. Aunt Zhao can be like a person after retirement, go out to chat with the older sisters are always Zhang Jia short, provoke right and wrong, we are reluctant to deal with her; at home, never do housework, when the dispensers to his wife Crossing nose nose vertical eye-catching, turn a blind eye to the advice of the sons and daughters do not want to go home, his wife and children also avoid it. I think the elderly in daily life, to be generous, respect for others, good for others, to set an example for their children and grandchildren; do not rely on the old to sell the old, complaining, not to rely on high, lofty pride.