眼睛是心灵的窗户。几乎没有人能躲避他人的眼光,也没有人能完全掩住自己的目光。人际沟通中,人们常常相互用目光沟通思想感情。无论人类的语言文字多么丰富,眼神在人际沟通中所包孕的内容是无法用语言代替的。在谈话开始前,聆听者一般看着对方表示请对方发言,谈话快要结束时,说话者望着听者,表示请听者发表议论和评价。在演讲作报告时,演讲者停顿扫视全场,会使听众肃静。 人们常说:“低头不见抬头见”正是从一个特殊的侧面表明了目光沟通的普通性和它能独立的表达各种感情。深切的注视是崇高的表示,眉来眼去、含情脉脉,暗送秋波是情侣情感的默契交流;横眉冷眼是憎恨仇视 The eyes are the windows of the soul. Almost no one can avoid the eyes of others, no one can completely cover their own eyes. In interpersonal communication, people often use their eyes to communicate thoughts and feelings with each other. No matter how rich the language of human beings is, the content in the eyes of the interpersonal communication can not be replaced by words. Before the start of the conversation, the listener usually looks at the other party and asks each other to speak. When the conversation is almost over, the speaker looks at the listener and indicates that the listener is invited to comment and comment. At the time of the speech, the speaker pauses and scans the audience and silences the audience. It is often said that “looking down without looking down” shows the commonality of eye communication from a special aspect and it can express various feelings independently. Deep look is lofty expression, eyebrows, affectionate, secretly send a couple is the tacit understanding of emotional exchanges; horizontal brow is cold hatred hate