文章通过一位满族妇女的生活经历,在经历父亲早年去世、缔结婚姻关系、丈夫早逝、家庭财产遭到重大的损失等生活的重大的挫折后,能够通过货物贸易、认“干爹”、身份关系转换等方式,来达到生存安全的最大化,达到其一系列的生存理性的适应性应对。 Through the life experience of a Manchu woman, after experiencing a major setback in his father’s early life such as death, marriage, husband’s death, and heavy loss of family property, the article identifies “godfather ”, The conversion of identity relations and other means to achieve the maximization of survival and security, to achieve a series of adaptive rationality of living rationality.