家访中,我们经常听到一些家长抱怨道:“对孩子,我们做家长的只希望他(她)把学习搞好,其余的事一点都不要他(她)操心,做饭、洗衣、铺被子,家务事根本不要他 (她)插手。可是这孩子现在是越来越不听话了,学习也不见长进。”语气中明显透露着失望和委屈。在家长的心目中,孩子的学习是头等大事,它关涉到孩子今后的前途和人生发展,珠不知,学习实际上只是孩子生活的一部分,它与一个人的性格、心理、思想培养和发展有着千丝万缕的联系。 During the family visit, we often hear some parents complain: “We only want him to be a child, and we only want him to improve his study. The rest do not require him / her to worry about cooking, laundry, , The housework did not want him (her) to intervene, but the child is now more and more disobedient, learning did not grow up. ”Gas was clearly disappointed and grievances. In the eyes of parents, children’s learning is the top priority, it relates to the child’s future and life development, beads do not know, learning is actually only part of the child’s life, it is with a person’s personality, mentality, ideology and development have Tens of thousands of contacts.