“你们最喜欢家长什么?”“平时不多唠叨,而当我们心里有事时,他们——”“说得上话!”“解得了闷!”……这是笔者在一次学生心理调查中接触到的较一致的回答场面。的确,“心病要用心药医”。但这一俗语只说了个头。什么是最简便有效的“心药”?我试给上面的俗话加一句:“最好心药是心语。”把“心语”交给孩子吗,你不妨这样“说”: “What do you like most about your parents?” “Do not usually nagging, but when we have trouble, they -” “Put it!” “Get bored!” ... This is the author in a student psychological survey More consistent access to the scene. Indeed, “heart disease doctors should be careful.” But the saying goes only a few words. What is the most simple and effective “heart medicine”? I would like to add the above saying goes: “The best heart medicine is the heart language.” The “heart language” to the children, you may wish to “say”: