一1997年,我大学毕业。在我到国家部委工作之后不久,爸爸满心欢喜地从山东老家来看我,想要感受一下儿子带给他的荣光。当时我住在单位的集体宿舍,我只能把爸爸安排在附近的旅馆,那是一家地下旅馆。这是一个与老人家传统意识、近期想象、来时预期全面冲突的安排。在去旅馆的路上,老爸满脸的失落,看得出他内心一直在激烈地斗争,体会着儿子的不近人情以及现实与理想的巨大反差所带给他的惊诧。 In 1997, I graduated from college. Shortly after I went to work in the state ministries, my father happily came to see me from his Shandong hometown and wanted to feel the glory his son had given him. At that time I lived in the unit’s dormitory, I can only arrange my dad in a nearby hotel, it is an underground hotel. This is an arrangement that is in full swing with the traditional sense of the elderly and the recent imagination. On the way to the hotel, Dad lost his face, I can see that his heart has been fiercely struggling to understand his son’s nearness and the great contrast between reality and ideal to his surprise.