常常听见不少教师抱怨,现在的孩子太难带了,娇惯得不成样子,一点重话也听不得,丝毫挫折受不得,动辄寻死觅活的,都是溺爱惹的祸!是啊,层出不穷的社会报道,一个个鲜活的例子再次证明教育的缺失,那就是孩子需要一定的心理承受能力,那教师和家长该怎么做呢?一、教师通过多种方式让孩子逐渐形成正确的是非观孩子是天真纯洁的,孩子的娇惯是家长溺爱的结果,孩子做了错事,很多家长舍不得批评孩子。有的家长不管孩子做的事情是否正确,一味赞许,导致孩子越发胡作非为,错失了在孩子是非观、人生观形成的重要时期的正确教育,导致不良事件发生。 Often hear many teachers complain that children are too hard to take now, pampered not as good as a few words can not hear, the slightest setbacks can not, often find death to death, are spoiled and blamed! Yes, an endless stream of social reports , A vivid example proves once again that the lack of education, that is, children need a certain psychological capacity, that teachers and parents how to do it? First, the teacher through a variety of ways to gradually form the right child is non-viewable child is naive Pure, the child’s prank is the result of parents spoiled, the child did a wrong thing, many parents reluctant to criticize their children. Some parents, regardless of whether the children do the right things, blindly praised, leading to more and more absurd children, missed the right and wrong view of life, the concept of outlook on life, the correct period of education, leading to adverse events.