很多人小时候遇到不懂的问题会马上向长辈或老师发问,随着年龄的增长,好奇心慢慢消退,虚荣心却在慢慢地滋长,怕别人知道自己不懂会丢面子。在《不懂就问》这个案例中,当上司兴致勃勃谈起他喜欢的桥牌时,小茜没有问:“老板,我不太懂桥牌,七无将是什么意思?”这就是她的虚荣心在作怪。如果小茜这么问,上司可能会有些失望,但是真心求教的秘书会给上司留下好印象,也许接下来上司会兴致盎然地向小茜讲解桥牌知 Many people encounter problems that they do not understand when they are young and they will immediately ask their elders or teachers. As they grow older, their curiosity slowly fades and their vanity slowly grows, fearing that others will not know they will lose face. In the case of “I do not understand, I asked,” Xiao Qian did not ask: “My boss, I do not understand the bridge. What is the meaning of the seven no?” This is her Vanity at work. If Siu Qian so ask, the boss may be a bit disappointed, but the sincere secretary will give the boss left a good impression, and then perhaps the boss will be pleased to explain to Xiao Qian Bridge Know