在孩子的一生当中，几乎避免不了与别的孩子的冲突。这些冲突或大或小，有时孩子之间就可以解决了，有时不免要惊动老师或父母，那么，成年人应该如何对待孩子的这些问题呢？我们通过一个咨询案例给某些父母以指导。同时，也选发了读者寒伟的一篇文章，从父母的角度谈谈他的看法和做法。 In the child’s life, can hardly avoid the conflict with other children. These conflicts, big or small, can sometimes be resolved between children, and sometimes can not help but disturb teachers or parents. So how should adults treat their children? We guide some of our parents through an advisory case. At the same time, also selected readers an article by Wei Wei, from the perspective of parents talk about his views and practices.