“我们的话怎么在孩子那里越来越不管用了?”小明的爸爸妈妈跟我诉苦说。经了解方知小明的爸爸教子严厉,妈妈却一向由着孩子的性子来。平时爸爸在家的时候,小明乖得像个小绵羊。可是有一天爸爸出差厂,这下小明简直闹翻了天,还在学校淘气惹了祸。爸爸回来后气不打一处来,一面怪小明妈妈溺爱,一面要打小明。妈妈过来拉,急得又哭又闹:“你打,先打我吧!”两个大人先打起来,孩子却成了“观战”者。经常如 “How can our words get out of control for children?” Xiao Ming’s father and mother complained to me. Knowing that Xiao Ming’s father taught her son to be harsh, her mother always came by her child’s temper. Usually when my father was at home, Xiao Ming behaved like a small sheep. However, one day my father’s business trip, this Xiaoming simply fall out of the sky, still naughty in school mess. Dad came back after the gas does not hit one side, strange little mother spoiled, while playing Xiao Ming. Mom pulled over, anxious and crying and trouble: “You hit, hit me first!” The two adults hit the first fight, the child has become a “battle” who. Often