期末考试一天天临近了,妈妈发现小帆的心情越来越烦躁不安。为了减轻女儿的心理压力,妈妈一面开导小帆,一面寻找导致压力的原因,但似乎没有什么效果。为此,妈妈带小帆走进了心理咨询中心……结果却出乎妈妈的意料:女儿的压力来源于妈妈。妈妈满腹委屈地向咨询员辩道:“我知道压力对孩子考试不利,所以我从未说过一句给孩子压力的话,我只是默默无闻地为孩子做一些事,帮她洗衣服。做夜宵:怕孩子晚上复习时犯困,我就在旁边陪她……’经过咨询员的一番讲解,小帆的妈妈恍然大悟。父母对孩子实施压力的方式有两种:一种是显性压力,常通过明显的语言及行为来表示。我们常听到 The final exam approaching day by day, the mother found Xiao-fan mood more and more irritable. In order to alleviate the psychological pressure on her daughter, while motivating sails, looking for the causes of stress, but it seems to have no effect. To this end, my mother took Xiao-fan into the psychological counseling center ... The result was beyond my mother’s expectations: her daughter’s stress comes from her mother. Mother grumbled to counselors: ”I know that stress is bad for the kids exam, so I never say a word to the children, I just do something for the children obscurity, to help her wash clothes .And supper: Afraid of children sleepy when reviewing at night, I’ll be with her next ... ... ’After some counselors explain, Xiao-fan’s mother suddenly realized that parents exert pressure on children in two ways: one is the dominant pressure, often through Clear language and behavior to that. We often hear