编辑同志:我的孩子7岁了,上学以后,老师反映孩子在班里总是落落寡和,没有朋友,和别的孩子玩不到一块,显得十分孤僻。请问孩子总这样下去,适应不了集体生活怎么办?做家长的该做哪些努力?广东陈怡陈怡同志:现在的孩子大多是独生子女,所以容易出现您所说 Editor’s Comrade: My child is seven years old, after school, the teacher reflects the children always fall in the classroom unwilling, without friends, and other children can not play a piece, it is very solitary. May I ask the child always go on like this, how to do can not adapt to collective life? What to do parents do? Guangdong Chen Yi Chen Yi comrades: children are mostly single children, so prone to what you said