一是不宜对孩子期望过高 每个孩子的先天条件、身体状况和生活环境不同,而社会需要的人才各异,因此,父母管教子女应采取适合自己孩子的实际措施,才会收到预期的效果。如果孩子本来没有某一方面的天资或者特长,做父母的却不惜花钱耗时费力硬要孩子往某一目标努力,这样,往往会给孩子心里上造成巨大的精神负担。久而久之,就会使孩子失去学习的乐趣,甚至会使孩子产生逆反心理,结果事与愿违。 First, it should not be too high expectations of children Each child's innate conditions, physical condition and living environment, and the community needs different personnel, therefore, parental discipline children should take practical measures for their children will receive the expected effect. If the child does not have a certain aspect of talent or expertise, parents are sparing no expense to spend time and effort hard to a child to a goal, so that often give the child a huge mental burden. Over time, it will make children lose the fun of learning, and even make children produce rebellious, the result is contrary to expectations.