提到夫妻间的吵嘴、打架,的确使人有难以理解的一面。本来两人是那样的相亲相爱才结合到一起,谁能料到会发生这样大吵大闹的场面:“你给我滚!”“我走就走!我才不愿看你那臭德行哪!”等等。象这样毫无意义的无谓的争吵,也是因人而异的。有的夫妻,经常不断地扭成一团,反反复复地闹纠纷。也有的连顶嘴都很少发生,始终和睦相处。我在这里所指的是那些吵架比较多的夫妻。并想劝说那些家中经常闹纠纷的丈夫,稍微做点“科学研究”。说来,办法很简单,只在发生争吵的日子,在日历上或日记本上,认真地记上一笔就行了。当记录了三、四个月之后,就可以仔细地查对一下,看一看吵架的日期是否有周期性。 Mentions of quarrels and fights between husband and wife do make it hard to understand. Originally they are like that kind of blind date together before, who can expect such a quarrel scene: “You give me a roll!” “I walk away! !”and many more. Meaningless and unnecessary quarrels like this also vary from person to person. Some couples, often constantly twisted into groups, repeatedly trouble trouble. Some even rarely occur with the tongue, always get along together. I am here referring to those who quarrel more couples. And want to persuade those husbands often troubled at home, do a little “scientific research.” To put it, the solution is very simple, only in the quarrel of the day, on the calendar or diary, a serious note on the line. After recording three or four months, you can check carefully to see if there is a periodic quarrel.