S君对我说了这样一件事（下面的“我”为S君）。我的女儿在上小学一年级的时候， 有一天对我说，班里总有同学拿她的东西，不止一次了，她很生气。我说，别那么小气，拿就拿吧。我工作上忙得要命，哪里顾得上这些事，也就没太往心里去，事情就这样过去了。过了一个多月，女儿学 S Jun told me one such thing (below “I” S Jun). When my daughter was in first grade, she told me one day that there were always classmates in the class who took her more than once, and she was very angry. I said, do not be stingy, take it. I am so busy with my work that I can not afford to go too far in my heart because of these busy matters. After more than a month, my daughter learned