父母的期望是一个影响孩子教育效果的重要因素。父母的期望程度如何,是否适度,将直接关系到子女的成长和发展水平。如果父母能根据子女的实际条件而提出较高的、经过子女努力又能达到的期望,这种期望本身就带有一种“隐蔽的强化作用。”它可以通过子女的知觉和投射两种心理机制,使他们或在自觉意识的水平上,或在自发无意识的水平 Parents’ expectation is an important factor that affects children’s education. Whether or not parents expect to be moderate or not will directly affect their children’s growth and development. If parents can put forward higher expectation that their children can reach according to the actual conditions of their children, this expectation itself has a kind of “hidden strengthening effect.” It can make use of the two psychological mechanisms of children’s perception and projection So that they are either at the level of conscious awareness or at spontaneous unconsciousness