心语姐姐:我今年32岁,是一名公务员两年前,我和一位比我大6岁的女人恋爱,她离过婚,性格开朗,和性格内向的我很互补,但我们的恋情却遭到了包括父母在内的所有人的反对。我是个懦弱的人,不愿意和父母对抗,也不愿意自己成为别人眼中的异类,更害怕我们的婚姻真的会不幸福。心语姐姐,我该怎么办千山千山弟弟:既然你这么在意、看重别人的 I am 32 years old and I am a civil servant Two years ago, I was in love with a woman who was 6 years older than me. She was divorced, cheerful, and introverted, but my relationship But was opposed by everyone, including their parents. I am a coward, I am unwilling to confront my parents, I am not willing to become the stranger in the eyes of others, and I am afraid that our marriage will really be unhappy. Xinyu sister, how can I do Qianshan Qianshan brother: since you care so much, value others