迷恋一个人的时候,往往并非是真的爱他,那情境有点像镜花水月,美则美矣,换个场景就不是那么回事了。说到底,还是我们怎么去看待爱情这个东西。真正的爱情虽然也是一堆火在烧,但那是确定的,彼此心知肚明,互相燃烧。所以很多时候,我们自以为是的暗恋往往跟爱情沾不上边,而只是一种自我迷恋的需要,多年后等你终于有了辨清一切的力量,你会发现, Infatuated with a person, often not really love him, that situation a bit like a mirror, the United States is beautiful, another scene is not the case. After all, how are we going to look at love this thing. Although true love is also a pile of fire in the burning, but it is certain, each knowing and burning with each other. So in many cases, our self-righteous crush is often not associated with love, but only a need of self-infatuation. Years later, when you finally have the power to discern, you will find that,