激情少年要弑父做王,独占一切。这是俄狄浦斯的代际寓言。青春,往往是因为与叛逆相连才得以存在的。叛逆的对象是什么?并不是人,也不是家庭,而是既有的社会规则,是上一代人为下一代人规定好的种种,是让莫名其妙就被抛入世界年轻人无法从容接受的处境。这可能就是代际关系的主要所指。观察历史,会发现,为了处理好代际关系,各民族都总结出了自己的准 Young passionate father to father, monopolize everything. This is an intergenerational allegory of Oedipus. Youth, often linked to treason, can exist. What is the object of rebellion? It is neither man nor family. It is an existing social rule that is prescribed by the previous generation for the next generation and is inexplicably thrown into a situation that the young people of the world can not easily accept. This may be the main point of intergenerational relations. Observing history, we will find that in order to handle intergenerational relations, all ethnic groups have summed up their own standards