随着孩子自我意识及年龄的增长,亲子间常会为了穿衣服、睡觉、玩游戏等意见不同,而引发冲突和不愉快;家长在发脾气前,不妨先了解孩子的感受及拒绝的原因,以沟通代替命令和责骂,来化解亲子间的不愉快。 As children’s self-awareness and age increase, parents and children often wear clothing, sleep, play games and other opinions are different, which lead to conflicts and unpleasant; parents lose their temper, may wish to understand the child’s feelings and reasons for refusal to communicate Instead of orders and scolding, to resolve the unpleasant relationship between parents and children.