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完全掌控和一味追随,并不是婚姻的理想状态。智慧的做法,究竟什么样?柳柳说,她喜欢掌控家里的一切。比如装修时,打造什么样的风格,必须听她的;比如老公必须几点前回家;比如大小事情,必须以她的意见为主。“知道吗?男人得攥在手心里才牢靠。”柳柳得意扬扬地向我炫耀她的驯夫术和婚姻掌控术时,那种表情让我想起了攥着一条蛇的捕蛇人。我们见过她的老公,出门倒是对她言听计从,唯唯诺诺。但是不知道为什么,那个男人精神萎靡,总好像缺那么点生气。
Full control and follow-up are not the ideal state of marriage. Wisdom, what exactly? Willow said she likes to control everything at home. Such as decoration, to create what kind of style, you must listen to her; for example, when her husband must go home before; such as the size of things, must be based on her opinion. “Do you know that men have to hold firmly in the palm of your hand. ” Willow willow proudly show off to me the hermeneutics and marriage control surgery, the expression reminds me of a snake holding a snake . We have seen her husband, it touches on her words, only non-promise. But do not know why, the man was apathetic, always seem to be a little less angry.