生活不是一场争输论赢的比赛,它更需要一种自然平和的心态,放下无谓的争执,在有限的、珍贵的时光里璀璨绽放。印象中,爷爷脾气火爆,说话嗓门很大,80多岁仍然声如洪钟。遇到小孩子不听话,捞起个板凳就扔过去了,我们见了他总有些怕。我这胆小的,更是觉得爷爷不好亲近,也很少主动亲近。与爷爷同住,父亲总是小心翼翼地关注着爷爷的情绪变化,在我看来,他的关注甚至带着些讨好的意思。有时候他 Life is not a race to win or lose. It needs a more natural and peaceful mindset to put down meaningless disputes and bloom in a limited and precious time. Impression, grandpa temperament hot, speak a great voice, 80-year-old still sound like a bell. Encountered a child not obedient, picked up a bench to throw in the past, we met him always afraid. My timid, but also feel that my grandfather is not close, and rarely take the initiative to get close. Living with my grandfather, my father was always careful about my grandfather’s mood changes. In my opinion, his concern even brought some pleasing meaning. Sometimes he