对学生的教育是一个重要的过程,不能期待着一下就开花结果,需要静下心,弯下腰,慢慢播种,静待花开。一、我们不能把学生的心理问题当作品德问题来看待我们刚接触××这样的同学,大多数老师差不多一致给他这样的评价:“这个孩子表现太差”“太没礼貌”“太没教养”等。经过长时间的接触,我们发现了这不是品质问题,而是心理问题。我们往往注视学生学习成绩的高低、品德的优劣,而忽略了学生的心理健 The education of students is an important process. We can not expect to blossom soon, and need to stop, bend over, sow slowly and wait for flowers to bloom. First, we can not regard the student’s psychological problems as a moral problem to treat the classmates that we just contacted × ×, most of the teachers are almost unanimous to give him such an evaluation: “This child is too poor ” “Too rude ”“ Not cultured ”and so on. After a long period of contact, we found that this is not a quality problem, but a psychological problem. We often look at the level of student achievement, the merits of morality, while ignoring the psychological health of students