中国人有“厌讼”的历史传统，凡事以“和为贵”为先；以“忍让”为手段；以“宰相肚里能撑船”“吃亏就是占便宜”为精神良药；用以化解人们在社会、生活中不同性质的矛盾，对“通过诉讼解决纠纷”敬而远之。 笔者曾遇一事。甲准备乘某航空公司的飞机回西安，在办理登机手续时 Chinese people have the historical tradition of “dislike litigation.” Everything takes “harmony as your priority” as the first priority. “Forbearance” as a means, “profit-taking” as a “ Contradictions of different nature in society and in life are far away from ”solving disputes through litigation". I have encountered a problem. A ready to take an airline plane back to Xi’an, at the check-in time