常有这样的事情: 有的学生在夜阑人静时,专砸自己所在班级教室的窗玻璃。有的学生在日记中写:“我好恨班级和同学!”有的学生为了逃避班级,一再出走,并发誓永远不进这个班级教室的门槛。有的学生在班级里感到压抑、孤独,而在街头友伴那里却谈笑风生,活跃自如。这些现象,都涉及到学生的参照群体取向问题。所谓参照群体,是指个人特别向往并接受其规范,成为自己言行参照点的群 Often this kind of thing: Some students in the dead of night, smashing the windows of their own class classrooms. Some students in the diary wrote: “I hate classes and classmates!” Some students in order to escape the class, repeatedly gone, and vowed never to enter the classroom classroom threshold. Some students in the class feel depressed, lonely, while in the street friends but laughing, lively. These phenomena all involve the orientation of students’ reference groups. The so-called reference group, refers to the individual particularly yearning for and accept the norms, as their own words and deeds reference point group