现代家庭的宝宝基本上是独生子女,都是父母捧在手心里的宝,都希望他(她)以后能出人头地,因此从小花在孩子身上的智力投资相当于自己收入的一半甚至更多。但是却往往忽略了对孩子的独立个性的培养和引导。大多数做父母的都认为小孩子还不懂事,能够自己独立做的事情还很少,需要等到孩子长大后才能培养和引导孩子独立的个性。因此,针对应如何从小培养和引导孩子独立个性意识进行了阐述。 Modern family babies are basically only one child, are parents holding treasure in his hand, hope he (she) later succeed, so the child spent the same amount of intellectual investment on their own income equivalent to half or more. However, it often neglects the cultivation and guidance of children’s independent personality. Most parents think children are not sensible, can do things on their own seldom, need to wait until the children grow up to develop and guide children’s independent personality. Therefore, this article focuses on how to cultivate and guide children’s independent personality awareness.