今年9月,我新接手一个班级。开学不到两个星期,我收到一位妈妈发来的微信:“老师,我家小凯在学校里是不是很孤僻,不善于交流?”时间太短,我还没有完全熟悉班级,只模糊地知道小凯是一个身材矮壮,头大脸黑的男孩子。我的课上,他从没举过手,但也不做小动作。下课,有时与同学在聊天,大多数时候一个人坐在座位上。可仅凭这些观察,我无法对孩子做出评价,于是反问这位妈妈“你为什么会有这样的想法?” In September this year, I took over a new class. Less than two weeks after the start of school, I received a WeChat sent by a mother: “Teacher, is my family Xiao Kai in school is not very lonely, not good at communication?” “Time is too short, I have not fully familiar with the class, Only vaguely aware that Xiao Kai is a short stature, big black boy face. He never raised his hand in my class but did not do any tricks. After class, sometimes chatting with classmates, most of the time a person sitting in the seat. Only by these observations, I can not make a comment on the child, so asked the mother ”Why do you think so?"