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每个人的婚姻都会出现问题,大到婚姻危机小到鸡毛蒜皮的小事。婚姻中出现矛盾是正常的,面临矛盾时不要逃避,逃避不仅不解决问题,反而会让夫妻关系陷入过度小心和压抑状态,不利于夫妻亲密关系的建立。同时,并不是任何矛盾和冲突都导致坏的结果,有的矛盾冲突反而会成为夫妻间一种集中、强烈,甚至是具有震撼作用的沟通方式,使双方更加了解对方的情感、性格以及对矛盾的承受极限和处理方式。
Everyone’s marriage will be a problem, ranging from small marriage trivial trivial matters. Contradictions in the marriage is normal, do not avoid the face of conflicts, not only does not solve the problem, but will make the relationship between husband and wife caught in too cautious and depressed state is not conducive to the establishment of intimacy between husband and wife. At the same time, not all contradictions and conflicts lead to bad results. Some contradictions and conflicts will become a concentrated, intense and even shocking communication between husband and wife so that both parties can better understand each other’s emotions, personalities and conflicts The ultimate limit and approach.