人们以为,放弃就是什么也不做,就是顺从。实际上,放弃是为了让欲望浮出水面,是我们为发现欲望而付出的代价。让我们以工作为例,对这种积极的超脱作一个小小的概括每一次进步都需要我们作出一点牺牲,付出一些代价。比如:放弃稳定舒适的生活去经历冒险,放弃曾经的荣誉重新从零开始,放弃一点私心给爱情留出位置,放弃轻松的二人世界来抚育子 People think that giving up means doing nothing, that is obedience. In fact, to give up in order to make the desire surfaced is the price we paid to find our desire. Let us take the work as an example. To make a small summary of such positive oversight, every step of our progress requires that we make a little sacrifice and pay a price. For example: to give up a stable and comfortable life to go through adventure, to give up once the honor again from scratch, give up a little selfish heart to set aside the position of love, to give up the relaxed world of two to nurture