我们通常认为无微不至的关怀与问候、时时刻刻的陪伴与提醒、省吃俭用给予无尽的财富、经常性地表达爱之语等倾其所有的关怀就是爱。然而,这种爱并不是所有时候都被珍惜,甚至有时不被接受。于是,便有人开始纠结:我对你这么好,你为什么不懂得珍惜?其实,这种爱在亲子关系中很常见。一个妈妈为了照顾孩子,工作地点跟着孩子考学的城市走;有的妈妈每天陪着孩子写作业到很晚,孩子不睡,她也不 We usually think that every care and greetings, every moment of companionship and reminder, thrift and fortune to give endless wealth, regular expression of love of language and all its care is love. However, this love is not always valued, sometimes unacceptable. So, someone began to tangle: I am so good for you, why do not you cherish? In fact, this love is very common in parent-child relationship. A mother in order to take care of children, work place to follow the child’s test of the city to go; some mothers work with children every day to write home late, the children do not sleep, she does not