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在现实生活中,有一部分孩子缺乏自信,他们认为自己在某方面,甚至很多方面都不如别人,自我评价是“能力有限”“没本事”“很笨”等。他们不敢参加课外活动,不敢在众人面前大胆表现自己;总是跟在能力较强的孩子后面,听从他人的安排,而不愿当领导者;面对困难挫折,常常逃避,不愿面对现实。孩子为什么会这样呢?这与失败的家庭教育有关,一些家长动不动就责骂孩子,殊不知孩子的成长需要家长的赏识,赏识是孩子生命中的阳光。
In real life, some children lack self-confidence. They think they are inferior to others in one aspect or even in many aspects. Self-evaluation is “limited ability ” “no ability ” “stupid ” and so on. They do not dare to participate in extracurricular activities and are afraid to show themselves boldly in front of people. They always follow behind capable children and follow other people’s arrangements rather than being leaders. In the face of difficulties and setbacks, they often evade or refuse to meet Reality. Why does the child do this? This is related to the failure of family education, some parents often scolded children, do not know the growth of children need the appreciation of parents, appreciation is the sunshine of children’s lives.