在我们收养了我们最小的孩子之后不久,一位朋友提出质疑,她认为白人不应该收养黑人小孩。她并非种族歧视,至少她不是白皮肤的种族歧视者,因为她是一个非裔美国人。她认为,把那个男孩从海地带走,让他沉浸在一个全白人的文化世界里,会摧毁他作为黑人的身份,剥夺他的种族文化。当我去到海地太子港,从那所位于邋遢尘灰之地的孤儿院将他接走时,他患有慢性眼疾,导致他一只眼 Shortly after we adopted our youngest child, a friend questioned why she believed whites should not adopt black children. She is not racist, at least she is not white-skinned racist because she is an African-American. In her opinion, taking the boy from Haiti and immersing him in an all-white cultural world would destroy his identity as a black man and deprive him of his ethnic culture. When I went to Port-au-Haiti and took him from the orphanage in the dusty land, he suffered from chronic eye disease that caused him one eye