特约谈话 一位家长在来信中苦恼地说:“我的孩子非常喜欢小动物。在街上,一见到有人在卖小鸭、小狗、小豚鼠,他就吵着要我给他买。我觉得养小动物又脏又麻烦。可是看到孩子那么喜欢,我又不忍心拒绝他的要求。我想知道,饲养小动物对孩子的成长究竟有什么意义?还有,在饲养小动物的过程中,家长应该怎样去引导孩子?”关于这个问题,在美国多年从事教育工作的吴放老师是这样说的—— Special conversation A parent distressed in a letter, said: “My children like small animals in the street, I saw someone selling the duckling, puppies, small guinea pigs, he clamored for me to buy him. I think raising a small animal is so dirty and troublesome, but when I see a child like it, I can not bear to reject his request. I want to know what it means to raise a small animal for the growth of a child. In the process, how should parents guide children? ”On this subject, Wu Fang, who has been teaching for many years in the United States,