随着孩子一天天长大,他无疑会越来越独立。独立,意味着他终将远行,而我们看到的也终将是他的背影。我们能做的是给他一点点助力,然后退隐其后,望着他的背影一点点远去——那么,我们就会轻松很多,淡定很多,而他,也会走得更笃定,更自在,更有力量。家长应做好哪些心理准备?孩子入园,分离焦虑几乎是不可避免的事实。但当我们把关注的重心放在孩子身上的同时,却也忽略了一个更为重要的真相——孩子入园,家长照样焦虑,甚至有过之而无不及。与其焦虑,不如尝试以下的做法,以更积极的心态去面对一切: As children grow up day by day, he will undoubtedly become more and more independent. Independence means he will eventually travel, and what we see will eventually be his back. What we can do is to give him a little help, and then retreat later, watching his back a little bit far - then, we will be much easier, a lot of calm, and he will walk more assured, more comfortable , More powerful. Parents should do what the psychological preparation? Children into the park, the separation of anxiety is almost an inevitable fact. But when we put our focus on our children, we neglect a more important truth - children go to school, parents are still anxious, and even worse. Instead of worrying about it, try the following things and face it with a more positive attitude: