最近,我11岁的儿子帕特里克突然冲进我的书房,说他不愿上学了。我放下书,厉声回答:“别再让我听到这种废话了。”他气鼓鼓地跑开了,我则继续看书。当天晚上,妻子告诉我帕特里克十分讨厌上数学课,他觉得上学是在浪费时间。这时我才意识到犯了一个错误,我没有听出帕特里克话中有话。我这位儿童心理学家犯了做父母最易犯的错误 Recently, Patrick, my 11-year-old son, suddenly burst into my study saying he would not go to school. I put down the book and snapped: “Do not let me hear that nonsense.” He ran away, and I continued reading. That night, my wife told me that Patrick hated math classes. He felt it was a waste of time to go to school. At this moment, I realized that I made a mistake and I did not hear something in Patrick’s words. My child psychologist has made the mistake most likely to be made by parents