男人的寂寞,就好比在乏味之时想抽一支烟又找不到的那种滋味。很多男人在他千篇一律的日子中都会有这种情形,所以我说男人有寂寞绝不是为了向妻子儿女们诉说,更不是要在女人的哀伤中讨一份相怜、相惜的同情来。男人的寂寞是一杯烈性酒,看着清澈,闻着诱人,品到嘴里却是又辣又涩,完全变了滋味。古往今来多少骚人墨客独独喜欢在花前月下、竹林松间晓酌一壶酒,温诗情,观棋趣,赏风流,其实那不过是他骨子里寂寞得难以下卧而已矣。不然半夜三更的何以要“举杯邀明月”地“独唱独饮还独卧”地听“夜船吹笛两箫箫”?男人的寂寞好比是绕梁的一支古典,看似飘流,品起来却闹心扯肺得多。当然女人也是有寂寞的,不过是这份寂寞与男人的比起来逊色多了,女人的寂寞是一朵小花,一段山路,一里长溪,既平淡易懂又不耐人寻味。男人的寂寞多半是 A man’s loneliness is like the kind of taste you want to smoke and can not find when you’re bored. Many men have this situation in his stereotyped days. Therefore, I say that loneliness is not meant to be told to wives and children, nor is it to sympathize with sympathy for the sorrow of a woman. A man’s loneliness is a spirits wine, looked clear, smells seductive, the product is spicy and astringent to the mouth, completely changed the taste. Since ancient times, many Sao people only like in the pre-showers moonlight, bamboo fluffy drink a pot of wine, warm poetry, watching chess, enjoy the romantic, in fact, it is nothing but his bones lonely hard to lay it. Or why the middle of the night to be more “Toast to invite the moon ” “solo single drink alone ” to listen “Night flute piper two flute ”? Man’s loneliness is like a beam around a classical look Like drift, but up to the product is much more drastic lungs. Of course, women are also lonely, but the loneliness is inferior to that of a man. The loneliness of a woman is a flower, a mountain road, and a long river, which is neither plain nor easy to think of. Men’s loneliness is mostly