不少人笃信,进入不惑之年是人生最成熟的时期。可偏偏有不少男士,在这一时期常表现出情绪不稳定和无法形容的恐惧感。他们的心情像断了线的风筝一样飘浮不定,甚至无所适从。人到中年为什么会重现青春期的“骚动”不安呢?一位心理学家回答了这一问题:“你不能按早晨生活的程序安排下午的生活。”而不少男土却不承认生命中有下午,因为“日薄西山”是可怕的,便出现了危机感。心理学家认为,男性的中年危机可以有五花八门的表现。譬如,为了填充内心空虚常常追求自我毁灭的娱乐活动或染上一些恶习,如打麻将、赌博、酗酒、迷恋少女等。出现中年危机可能有如下原因:对婚姻现状不满;对事业过分投入,压力太大造成的紧张情绪;付出的太多而 Many people believe that entering the age of perplexity is the most mature period of life. But there may be many men, during this period often show emotional instability and indescribable fear. Their moods fluctuated like a broken line kite, even at a loss. Why does a man reproduce the “commotion” of adolescence in middle age? A psychologist answered the question: “You can not arrange an afternoon’s life according to the procedure of morning’s life.” Many men and women do not recognize life In the afternoon, a sense of crisis arises because the “meager fashion” is scary. Psychologists believe that men’s midlife crisis can have a wide range of performance. For example, in order to fill the emptiness of the pursuit of self-destructive entertainment often or infected with some bad habits, such as playing mahjong, gambling, alcoholism, infatuation with girls and so on. Middle-aged crisis may have the following reasons: dissatisfaction with the status quo of marriage; over-commitment to the cause of stress caused by too much tension; to pay too much and