又一位父亲来到心理咨询室,满脸愁苦地坐在我的面前:“老师,您说我们那个儿子是怎么回事?这不,初三刚刚开学没几天,他忽然闹着不去上学了。我们连哄带劝,连说带闹,孩子就是不去上学。您说这孩子是多让人着急?你越着急,他越不着急,就是不去上学了。您说这可怎么办?”我们进行了 Another father came to counseling room, sad face sitting in front of me: “Teacher, you say that our son is how it happened? This is not, just a few days after the first three days of school, he suddenly did not want to downtown Go to school, we even coax persuade, even with trouble, the child is not going to school.You say this child is more anxious? The more anxious you, he is more hurried, just do not go to school. Do? ”We conducted