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孩子为什么不懂得分享?问:我的孩子都9岁了,独占欲很强,很霸道,自己喜欢吃的东西从不主动拿去与别人分享,也不喜欢和同伴分享他的新书等,这样会不会对他今后的人际交往产生影响?蔡建新:这个9岁的孩子对自己心爱的东西保护有加,是出于两个方面的原因:一是这些东西他喜欢,二是他把这些东西当作了自己的“财产”。无论是孩子还是成人,对自己的财产看管好,都无可非议。成人把那些东西看得很淡,出于各种意图盼望孩子能与他人共享,可孩
Children do not know how to share? Q: My children are 9 years old, monopolistic desire is very strong, overbearing, their favorite things never take the initiative to share with others, do not like to share his new book with peers, etc. Tsai Kin-shin: The 9-year-old child has more to protect his beloved things for two reasons: First, he likes these things, and second, he put these Things as their own “property ”. Both children and adults, have good control over their own property, are beyond reproach. Adults see those things very light, for various purposes expect children to share with others, can be children