朋友过来诉苦,最近孩子越来越不听话了。在中国的饭桌上,我不止一次看到这样的景状:家中资历最老的长辈,颤巍着身子,给屋内年龄最小的熊孩子盛饭端水,娇哄喂饭。似乎,这不仅仅是某几个家庭的景状,它所牵连到的地域,几乎是横跨南北,直越东西,贯穿了整个中华民族的现代家庭内况。我们对孩子的疼爱,已经到了无以复加的地步。小小年纪,他所得到的,不仅仅是父母的关怀,学校的教导,社会的庇护,更有祖辈的溺爱,亲戚的骄纵…… My friend came to complain, the child is more and more disobedient recently. At the dinner table in China, I have seen such a scene on more than one occasion: the eldest of the elders in my family, trembling, giving the youngest child of the house a welcome dinner. It seems that this is not just the landscape of a few families. The geographical area it is implicated in is almost across the north and south, crossing things and running through the modern family conditions of the entire Chinese nation. Our love for children has come to an end. At a young age, what he got was not only the care of parents, the teaching of schools, the protection of the society, but also spoiled by grandparents and the arrogance of relatives ...