首先说明一下,今天这场讲座,完全是一次“意外事故”的结果,因为一年前,我的学生黄雪梅来约我,说要请我来这边来给大家做个讲座,我没有答应。后来她又说了几次,我还是没答应,因为我不喜欢做讲座,也没有能力做讲座。后来,是在一个月以前吧,我来贵阳出差,她来看我,当时我喝酒醉了,她就趁我醉酒的时候跟我谈做讲座的事情,问我能不能答应人家?我当时醉酒了,什么事都敢答应。到我醒酒的时候,她就问我,你决定什么时候来做讲座?我说我不是告诉过你我来不了吗?她说你怎么这么不讲信誉啊,你都答应了人家的。我说我在哪里答应的啊?她说在哪里哪里,当时旁边还有谁谁 First of all, today’s talk is totally the result of an “accident” because a year ago my student Huang Xuemei came to discuss with me and asked me to come here to give you a lecture. I did not promise. Later, she said a few times, I still did not agree, because I do not like to do lectures, there is no ability to do lectures. Later, just a month ago, I came to Guiyang for a business trip. She came to see me. When I was intoxicated, she talked to me about my lecture while I was drunk and asked if I could promise others. Anything dare to agree. When I was sobbing, she asked me, when did you decide to do the lecture? I said I did not tell you I can not come? She said you how did you not so much credibility, you have promised others. Where did I say I promised, ah? Where did she say where, when there next to who