1.要想孩子听自己的话,先让自己听孩子的话。是听孩子说话。我一直认为,对孩子进行家教,其实就是在听孩子说话的过程中适当点拨她(他)一下。孩子不说话,你的点拨就没有针对性,就是乱说一气。不听孩子说话,就没有发言权。2.积累能力的本事比积累存折上的数字更重要。作为家里的男人,如果太在意存折上的数字,就会让家人暗自心 1. If you want children to listen to yourself, let them listen to their children first. It is listening to children. I always think that tutoring a child is actually just giving her a hand when listening to a child. Children do not speak, your call is not targeted, that is, talk nonsense. Do not listen to children, there is no voice. 2. The ability to accumulate ability is more important than the accumulation of the number on the passbook. As a man at home, if too concerned about the number on the passbook, it will make their families secretly