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你和先生并不是生活在二人的真空世界。原生家庭的差异、价值观的差异、成长频率的差异……让流传甚广的婚姻定律变得“站不住脚”。时下,微信好友圈各类“心灵鸡汤”文章被广泛传播,随之而来,各种关于如何建构幸福婚姻的建议、金句、指南,也在不断被转载而流传甚广。比如,“请尝试,每天做一件事情,给您的爱人带来额外的喜悦。例如,送她一束花做礼物,打一通爱心电话,给他一个特另的微笑——不是用嘴角,而是用双眼。”又比如,“家是讲爱的地方,不是讲道理的地方,当你的爱人生气的时候,你只需要紧紧拥抱她(尤其对妻子管用哦)。”
You and Mr. are not living in a vacuum world of two people. Differences in primary families, differences in values, differences in growth rates ... make the widespread laws of marriage “untenable.” Nowadays, wechat friends circle various kinds of “soul chicken soup” articles are widely disseminated, followed by a variety of suggestions on how to build a happy marriage, gold sentences, guides, are constantly being reproduced and widely circulated. For example, “Trying to do something everyday adds extra joy to your lover, for example, giving her a bunch of flowers as a present, making a love call and giving him a special smile - not a mouth , But with your eyes. ”Again, for example, “ Home is a place to talk about love, not a place for reason. When your partner is angry, you just have to hug her (especially for his wife). ”