“最家长”读者问:我是一位独自抚养孩子的妈妈,我该如何面对和回答孩子关于“爸爸”的问题?我在孩子什么年龄告诉他合适?是告诉孩子真相,还是编织一个美好的谎言?孩子的感受取决于妈妈的态度对于孩子来说,其实是没有秘密可言的。孩子一定会知道,自己家跟其他家庭不一样。即使孩子可能还不了解到底不一样在哪里,但是他一定能够感觉到差异的存在。秘密会让人有一种未知、不确定的感受,随之而来的焦虑感,不一定真的是爸爸的缺失带来的,反而可能是你回应孩子的方式和造成的这个氛围带来 “The most parents ” reader Q: I am a mom raising children alone, how can I face and answer the child’s question about “Daddy”? What age do I tell him the child is appropriate? Tell the child the truth, Or weaving a beautiful lie? The feelings of the child depends on the attitude of the mother for the children, in fact, there is no secret at all. Children will know that their home is different from other families. Even though children may not know exactly where they are, he must be able to sense the difference. Secret will make people have an unknown, uncertain feelings, the resulting sense of anxiety, not necessarily really brought by the loss of my father, but may be your response to the child and the resulting atmosphere brought