陶行知的那句名言:“千教万教教人求真,千学万学学做真人。”就这样把它印在心里,感觉就像在一棵绿意婆娑的大树下纳凉,心里有一种久违的安静,特别的澄明。从事班主任工作已经有很长时间,面对形形色色的学生及家庭,学习感知过各色各样,包罗万象的教育教学理论及方法。在谈论技巧,研究方法盛行的今天,我却不止一次陷入深深的困惑:为什么宽松也罢,严厉也罢,最终的效果还是一样?在与家长的沟通中为什么常常陷入左右都不是的两难困境?为什么接班两年多,我的学生与家长相处却又变得那么自然融洽,心似乎又越走越 Tao Xingzhi’s famous quote: “teach thousands of people to teach people seeking truth, thousands of students learn to be real. ” So it printed in my heart, I feel like a tree under the green whirling Cool, my heart has a long absence, quiet, special clarity. It has been a long time since we started to work as a teacher in charge of a class and faced with all kinds of students and families. We have learned a great variety of teaching theories and methods of education and teaching. Today, when talking about techniques and research methods, I have been deeply confused on more than one occasion: why is it more lenient or harsh? The final result is still the same. Why is it that I often fall into the dilemma of being neither left nor right in my communication with parents? After more than two years of continuous work, my students get along with their parents and become naturally harmonious, the heart seems to go further