读《红楼梦》,一般人会觉得黛玉小心眼,说话刻薄,处处多疑。然而我却认为这是对她的误解。黛玉出生破落贵族世家,幼年丧母,孤苦无依,奉父命投奔千里之外的外祖母家,这也为她日后忧郁敏感的性格埋下伏笔。进贾府后“步步留心,时时在意,不轻易多说一句话,多行一步路,惟恐被人耻笑 Reading “Dream of Red Mansions”, most people will think Daiyu small heart, harsh speech, everywhere suspicious. However, I think this is a misunderstanding of her. Dai Yu was born in a dilapidated aristocratic family, young mother died, lonely, lost his father's life thousands of miles away from the grandmother home, which also paved the way for her future depression sensitive character. After entering the Jiafu "step by step pay attention, always care about, not easy to say a word, many lines, fear of being ridiculed