【咨询案例】我和妻子几十年,都兢兢业业上班过日子。街坊邻里都说,我们两口子不吵架,不生气,日子过得多好。说心里话,自己也感觉我们夫妻相处还是不错的,很少冲突,也很少吵架。几年前妻子退休了,家里有人照顾了,感觉挺好的。去年,我也退休了,刚退休那会儿,也还感觉不错。但是,日子长了,两个人天天在一起,反而不知道怎么样相处了,你看我不对,我看你不对,常常为一点小事争得脸红脖子粗。比如说,家里的东西要怎么摆,钱要怎么花,甚至连孙子要 【Consultation case】 I and my wife for decades, are dedicated to work and live. Neighbors said the neighborhood, the two of us not quarrel, not angry, how good the day. To be honest, I also feel that we get along well with the couple, rarely conflict, but also rarely fight. A few years ago his wife retired, someone at home take care of, I feel very good. Last year, I also retired, just retired, but also feel good. However, the days are long, two people together every day, but do not know how to get along, you see me wrong, I think you are wrong, often won a little blush neck. For example, how to put things at home, how to spend money, and even grandchildren want